The Forces of Love

Assentment

To everything as it is and to everyone as they are, love is unconditionally accepting life as it is, the other as they are, and myself as I am. This force includes the other three and is the most demanding of all, therefore the most healing. This force speaks to us of a love that is not emotional, but existential. Everything is loved and cherished just as it is by the creative energy; nothing is excluded from that creative energy. All are as they need to be, and they are loved simply for the fact of Being.

Belonging

This force of Love tells us that everyone has the same right to belong, all belong equally, regardless of what has happened. The movement of this force is one of inclusion and respect for difference. Everyone is different, and everyone has the same right to belong.

To accept life is to accept the life given by our parents, to accept being children of those parents, meaning accepting our place, accepting that our life is determined by our birth and our place in the family of origin. To love is to recognize that life is organized by order. Every element of life has its specific place determined by its entry date into the systems. Neither inheritance nor personal merits allow us to decide our place.

Order

Balance

The compensation between gains and losses, meaning the balance between giving and receiving, is the force that transforms polarities into a new reality. It is the force that creates quantum leaps. These forces are constant and inexorable; they are present in all living systems, forming the framework of life. Their presence is only perceived through their effects. They are fields of force at the service of life.